tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post2130778541839038491..comments2024-03-05T05:53:19.278-05:00Comments on Antique ART Garden: Me and LOT's WIFEAntique ART Gardenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06674268803389194210noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-66886665554166848912011-02-11T05:32:56.100-05:002011-02-11T05:32:56.100-05:00GINA,
I'M SO SORRY, I KNOW THE EMOTIONS YOU A...GINA,<br /><br />I'M SO SORRY, I KNOW THE EMOTIONS YOU ARE DEALING WITH. I HAVE BEEN THERE, EVEN SO I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO MAKE YOUR HEART BETTER FOR MINE STILL PAINS. <br /><br />MAY GOD BLESS YOU.<br /><br />SUESuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052985388760700822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-23202851371526285352010-10-22T10:29:27.645-04:002010-10-22T10:29:27.645-04:00I am so utterly moved by your post, and am bawling...I am so utterly moved by your post, and am bawling. I will pray that you wake up and every day from herein is sunny outside and in your heart. Your love for you daughter is expressed in every word you've written. You're on the right journey, allowing yourself to heal and not rushing it. You will be left with a scar, but when you go to your garden you will find Sarah there, amongst all that you touch, see and breath. But I don't need to tell you this. You already know. Don't ever think you're alone and the world is going on happy without your daughter. The other day I laid in bed at 5 a.m crying over an 18 year old girl that was killed in a car accident. She was a mere stranger to me, but was one year behind my son in graduating. I never knew her, but the news of her death really got to me. I cried that morning because I knew that it was the day she would be buried and that I also knew her parents were likely crying, like me, at that exact same time. I think about their daughter now when I'm out sometimes. I will think of your daughter too now, and the beautiful photos you have here of her. She will never be forgotten. May God Bless you and your family. LisaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04462378600522778350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-47317175420763624792010-10-21T14:53:27.020-04:002010-10-21T14:53:27.020-04:00Hi Gina - I came by yesterday to leave a comment b...Hi Gina - I came by yesterday to leave a comment but blogger was acting up at the moment and didn't get back to you. Beautiful post Gina. I think the commenter above put it well -Robert d'Amour. I like what he said. Hope you have a blessed day sweetie.Becca's Dirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-74315948623449125862010-10-20T04:43:54.272-04:002010-10-20T04:43:54.272-04:00I have been visiting your site for several weeks. ...I have been visiting your site for several weeks. Your heartfelt writing is incredibly beautiful and touching and I feel as though I've come to know both you and Sarah, even if only from a distance. When I'm strolling through my own garden, I often find myself thinking of you both. The deep bond you & your lovely daughter shared is an inspiration to all who stumble upon your blog. I, too, am the mother of a precious daughter & I cannot imagine life without her.Desnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-54199965613857450992010-10-20T04:20:56.052-04:002010-10-20T04:20:56.052-04:00My friend Mr Jung wrote something about the mother...My friend Mr Jung wrote something about the mother-daughter relationship, which is beyond me. This is what he says:<br /><br />"We could say that every mother contains her daughter in herself and every daughter her mother and that every woman extends backwards into her mother and forwards into her daughter. The pysche pre-existing in the unborn child participates in the maternal psyche on the one hand, while on the other it reaches acorss to the daughter psyche. This participation and intermingling give rise to a peculiar uncertainty as regards time: a woman lives earlier as a mother, later as a daughter. The conscious experience of these ties produces the feeling that her life is spread out over generations - the first step towards the conviction of being outside time, which brings with it a feeling of immortality."<br /><br />Mr Jung's friend, Marie-Louise von Franz, presumably following his line, wrote about childbirth. She says it's deporable that, today, childbirth is seen as a medical procedure that takes place in a hospital. Whereas it was once a spiritual event with great meaning:<br /><br />"It is as if the woman were instrumental in bringing something to life in a wider sense than the biological explanation. The pregnant women is a vessel for that mysterious process; she carries that mystery within her. It is a closeness to the beyond. To that unknown source from which life comes and to which it returns. The dreams of pregnant women show that the unconscious makes a big, archetypal, and I would call it numninous, affair of having a child. Pregnant women have this proximity to the archetypal world, mysterious dreams about the origin of man. There are psychological mysteries, and inner realisations connected with childbirth, which many women miss out on in our culture."John Webbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02966938808921010638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-84192950369787458352010-10-19T18:38:58.916-04:002010-10-19T18:38:58.916-04:00I like the way you express your thoughts and expla...I like the way you express your thoughts and explain the different emotions you experience. It offers those of us who have NOT lost a child have a tiny glimpse t into the grief that comes with that experience.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08740950362293427086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-14054703861872874562010-10-19T14:19:49.328-04:002010-10-19T14:19:49.328-04:00That was another heartfelt post dear Gina. Love is...That was another heartfelt post dear Gina. Love is eternal, and what you had with Sarah cannot be taken away. The time she was alive here on this earth is becoming further in the past, but the day of your reunion is drawing ever closer.<br /><br />Love, hugs and prayers ~ FlowerLadyFlowerLady Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17678852154334714784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-18470346295323447992010-10-19T14:12:19.638-04:002010-10-19T14:12:19.638-04:00Gina ,I know that one of the hardest things about ...Gina ,I know that one of the hardest things about bereavement that I felt was that every one else who was not involved just kept on their life as normal. I wanted to shout out" nothing is normal...don't you know that?" <br />You are completely normal in your grieving.<br />Part of my reading this morning was that reassuring verse..."underneath are the everlasting arms" so fall as far as you need to my dear.Gerry Snapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269492251928362799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-33587897355549842512010-10-19T13:37:32.197-04:002010-10-19T13:37:32.197-04:00Gina...That is a wonderful way to look at it, and ...Gina...That is a wonderful way to look at it, and one that I believe is very true. She is and will always be a very big part of you. The two of you share an eternal bond...one that can never be severed. The veil between the earthly realm and the heavenly realm is very thin, and she is indeed always very near to you.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01106128705768954876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-63178757906843091232010-10-19T13:34:00.986-04:002010-10-19T13:34:00.986-04:00Mourning the grief of losing your precious baby is...Mourning the grief of losing your precious baby is very time<br /><br />It will cost you years of your life, to a place to give and it would remain difficult.<br /><br />It remains difficult every day sometimes every hour, every minute ....<br /><br />You only feel pain and sorrow ....<br /><br />Oh what have I terribly sorry for you, I wish I could help.<br /><br />I still pray for you every day ..... that's my interpretation ....<br /><br />Blessings and love darling..........lots of hugs........love you Ria....It's mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15647922092566478165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525384231822327550.post-158948294035817542010-10-19T12:49:15.564-04:002010-10-19T12:49:15.564-04:00Gina, I shed tears for you reading this today. It...Gina, I shed tears for you reading this today. It takes time, and sometimes a lot of it, before the pain lessens. She is always a part of you, and you of her. I hope writing and sharing your grief brings you a small measure of comfort. God loves you.Shirleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06065113724187544247noreply@blogger.com